'Sometimes we’re on fire and other times we’ve had to physically put it on our calendars and schedule sex.'
There are no official guidelines for what your sex life is supposed to look like after having kids — but even so, you might find yourself wondering what you have to look forward to or if your experience as a parent is ~normal~.people of all ages, genders, and sexualities to describe the nitty-gritty of what their sex lives looked like after they became parents.
"If I don’t actively TRY to keep our sex life interesting and add variety, we will go six to eight weeks without it. Right now, we have it once a week on Saturday nights for about 20 minutes. It is a constant struggle to keep up with the intimacy. Life is so busy, and having kids is exhausting, so we work at our relationship every day.""We also will meet in up in closets, pantries, and even the garage to sneak in a quickie.
"I guess you could say our sex life goes through seasons and cycles. Sometimes we’re on fire and other times we’ve had to physically put it on our calendars and schedule sex. A lot of those seasons tend to fluctuate based on our children. We’ve got three kids between the ages of 1 and 10 and their stages, especially during the baby/toddler years, changed how and when we’ve had sex.
"Married sex is awesome. Everyone orgasms, there's no messing around, you have a goal, you achieve it, you roll over, fart, and go back to sleep. You don't have to worry about 'looking sexy' because you know you're sexy to each other. Gotta pee? Say so. Gotta fart? Say so. Want chocolate milk afterwards? That's cool. Have a zit bothering you? Foreplay.""When you're considering the mortgage vs. orgasm equation, sex always gets left behind.
"We currently have a 1-year-old sleeping in a crib in our room, so we now have sex on our couch in our living room because our child will wake up if there is any noise at all. Also, my wife had three severe tears during childbirth that have affected how we have sex. Certain positions are now extremely painful for her, and it took a while for her to be comfortable with her body, especially while she was still breastfeeding .
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